Dating after divorce sounds like a great idea, to bring you out of your morbid and insipid life. Although it might not look, as thrilling and exciting to you, as it used to be, before you got married, but still you never know, you might meet your soul mate in the disguise of your next date.
Family lawyers always recommend dating, as it is a commendable step to give your life a new meaning. As you have already been hurt once, you would like to be double sure, that the person you are dating is the right one for you. And you are correct in thinking so, but that might make the idea of date a burden for you.
First of all, remember one thing, you should date a person, only because you want to. Your ex should not be the reason for that. Sometimes, spouses after divorce, keep an eye on their ex activities such as, whom they are dating and how soon after divorce, they started dating.
No, you don’t have to compete with your ex-spouse. Don’t date anyone till the time you are mentally prepared to have someone in your life.
Meet the person you are dating, just like a friend. Take it casually, and let it go smoothly. Ask general questions such as his/her hobbies, pastime, favourite books, favourite movies etc.
You will get a lot of idea about the person through his/her way of speaking. If you enjoyed spending time with him/her, take the process of dating one step ahead, else there are lot more option waiting for you.
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